Living Abroad: Books About Living the Expat Life

by Miss Footloose

I trust you are familiar with the famous books by Peter Mayle about restoring a ruin of a house and living in the Provence, and the ones set in Tuscany by Frances Mayes. The romance of it! The food! The wine!

Tuscany houseWindow in Tuscany, Italy

However, I’m not sure we all actually dream of doing that, because no matter how romantic it seems, the God of Stress and Disaster has lots of fun playing games as we toil away. Anyway, it is entertaining to read about it, don’t you think?

I’m always looking for books about living in foreign countries, and I thought I’d offer you a list of books I’ve read in the last few years. The following titles are all contemporary expat life tales, not travelogues or historical adventures. No, not all are about restoring derelict farm houses and growing your own olives. They’re listed in no particular order, with the titles linked to author web sites or other informational sites. When nothing else was available, I linked them to Amazon. I have updated this post and added a few more books. Make sure to read the comments for more great titles offered up by other readers.

Almost French by Sarah Turnbull – France (Paris)

I enjoyed this one for the culture shock elements: Casual, informal Aussie girl falls in love with Frenchman, moves to Paris and learns about how things are (not) done in the City of Light. Like, you know, you don’t run out to the corner boulangerie to buy a baguette while wearing your sweats. It’s not nice for the baker! (PS: I live in France now, in the more relaxed far south, and its not Paris here, trust me.)

Stealing Fatima’s Hand by Carolyn Theriault – Morocco

Not all is charm and romance when you have a working life in Morocco. I found this non-touristy, irreverent view of Morocco very interesting. Canadian Carolyn and her husband are teachers and worked in Turkey and Iraq as well. No, they’re not restoring old houses.

Rules of the Wild, by Francesca Marciano – Kenya

I loved this book (although it’s not how I experienced my rustic expat life when I lived in Kenya ages ago with my Peace Corps husband!) The setting is wonderful, the writing excellent. This is what it says on Amazon: “Romantic, often resonantly ironic, moving and wise, Rules of the Wild transports us to a landscape of unsurpassed beauty even as it gives us a sharp-eyed portrait of a closely knit tribe of cultural outsiders: the expatriates living in Kenya today. Challenged by race, by class, and by a longing for home, here are “safari boys” and Samaritans, reporters bent on their own fame, travelers who care deeply about elephants but not at all about the people of Africa. They all know each other. They meet at dinner parties, they sleep with each other, they argue about politics and the best way to negotiate their existence in a place where they don’t really belong.”

 Morocco architectureMarrakesh, Morocco

The Caliph’s House by Tahir Shah – Morocco

Okay, this is one about restoring an old house, but not any old house. It’s an empty, derelict mansion inhabited by jinns (spirits) and full of mysteries. Restoring it is an adventure involving exorcism rituals and creepy people. Great story. Here a 5 minute video of the author speaking about his experiences.

The Sex Lives of Cannibals by J. Maarten Troost – Vanuatu (Island nation in S. Pacific)

Interesting title, but rather misleading. But hey, it made me buy the book, and I wasn’t sorry.

The Sex Lives of Cannibals tells the hilarious story of what happens when Troost discovers that Tarawa is not the island paradise he dreamed of. Falling into one amusing misadventure after another, Troost struggles through relentless, stifling heat, a variety of deadly bacteria, polluted seas, toxic fish…” Warning: The author has a lively way of describing smelly stuff, so you may want to keep an air-freshener handy.

The Expats, by Chris Pavone – Europe

This is a novel, very interesting and exciting. An American couple moves to Luxembourg. The wife has a dangerous secret that she finds she cannot escape by moving overseas. It’s a story full of intrigue, and danger. This one kept me reading. Check it out.

Holy Cow: An Indian Adventure, by Sarah Macdonald – India

I’ve been a lot of places, but have never visited India. Australian Sarah gives up her job and moves reluctantly to New Delhi when her partner is transferred. I have all kinds of respect for how she takes on her new life, dives right in and trying to understand the local culture. From Amazon: “Holy Cow is Macdonald’s often hilarious chronicle of her adventures in a land of chaos and contradiction, of encounters with Hinduism, Islam and Jainism, Sufis, Sikhs, Parsis and Christians and a kaleidoscope of yogis, swamis and Bollywood stars. From spiritual retreats and crumbling nirvanas to war zones and New Delhi nightclubs.” This book is fun, fascinating and scary. She really made me feel I was there with her, including feeling hot and sweaty.

Freeways to Flip-Flops by Sonia Marsh – Beliz

Have you ever thought of just packing up the spoiled teenagers and getting out of America to live a simpler, less materialistic life on a tropical island? Here’s the story of a suburban family doing just that. It’s a gutsy thing to do, and not without risks.

The Reluctant Tuscan by Phil Doran – Italy (Find it on the Amazon of your choice.)

To get them away from their stressful Hollywood life, the author’s wife buys (without his knowing) a broken-down three-hundred-year-old farmhouse in Italy. He is not at all happy. But what do you know! He finds his Inner Italian and gets converted! The author is a writer/producer of various sitcoms, and you can tell in the writing. I could visualize this book straight into a sitcom.

Chickens, Mules, and Two Old Fools by Victoria Twead – Spain

British couple buys an old house in a tiny village in Spain, fix up the place, make friends, love their Spanish life.

The Mother-in-Law Cure by Katherine Wilson – Italy (Naples)

I loved this book for its warmth. American girl falls in love with Italian man and his family. Full of humor and love and food, and the real deal southern Italian family life in Naples.

 Spanish FountainFountain in Seville, Spain

Dancing in the Fountain by Karen McCann – Spain

Expat life in the city of Seville: Karen and her husband decide moving to Spain and living an interesting expat life is more stimulating to the gray cells than sitting comfortably at home in America and snoozing through retirement waiting for the Grim Reaper. I so agree with her. Although she enjoys her siesta’s, Karen is wide awake as she revels in the fun of life in Spain. (Seville is a fairy tale town, one of my most favorite ‘visit’ places.)

Miss Expatria by Christine Cantera  Italy (Rome)

American Christine wants to live and work in Europe, gets on a plane to Rome and falls in love with Italian life. I enjoyed her enthusiasm in taking on all things Italian. Here’s an interview with Christine.

Perking the Pansies by Jack Scott – Turkey

Wanting a change from the rat race in clammy old England, two openly gay married guys take on the expat life in Turkey. A fun read.

On Mexican Time by Tony Cohan – Mexico

This one has been around for a while. Tony Cohan is a novelist, his wife an artist. Escaping Los Angeles, they buy a house in San Miguel and discover the many pleasures of life in Mexico. Excellent writing. I wanted to move there.

* * *

Now, dear readers, please help me out here and add some of your fun reads in the comments. I would especially love to find expat books set in other parts of the world, say Africa, or Asia. Do you know any?

You may also like

Notify of

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Oldest Most Voted
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments

Hi Karen,

Great list! You have a Dutch surname, I notice. I am a Dutch expat living in Italy since 2008 and have written my own book about my life here. Living in Italy: the Real Deal, check it out here if you want. Maybe you could add it to the list?
Cari saluti


A Year in the Merde by Stephen Clarke was great! He has a few after that I haven’t read yet.

The Reluctant Tuscan by Phil Doran was hilarious! I read it several years ago & emailed Phil how my husband and I laughed our evenings away in bed as I we traveled with him along the dirt paths leading to his old Italian villa. As for me? I moved aboard a WWiI ship for 14 months and sailed the seven seas. I wish you smooth sailing & oceans of blessings, Karen.

Heya. I just started reading Shantaram, by Gregory David Roberts. It’s the first book in a long long time where I’m completely immersed and enraptured by the storytelling. It tells the story of an escaped convict, set in India – and the way he describes Mumbai and the people/poverty are so incredibly spot on. Best of all – it’s based on his own life.

I find the trouble with a lot of these books is that they are written by well-off people who do not really live the life of the country. However, one of my favourites is “A House in Sicily” by Daphne Phelps.

There are so many expatriate memoirs I’ve enjoyed, but one I’ve been thinking about recently is Mark Salzman’s Steel and Iron & Silk, about the author’s experiences teaching English and studying martial arts in China. Sheila Payne’s Afghan Amulet is another favorite; although it’s a travel memoir and not an expatriate story. I will come back to this post–I LOVE expatriate memoirs.

Thank you for some great recommendations – I am brand new to the ex pat life and have been finding blogs a huge comfort and source of inspiration and advice, but am definitely going to step up a gear and read some of these books – thanks!

Great list! Loved Jack Scott’s book! Here are 3 more Turkey books:

Tea and Bee’s Milk: Our Year in a Turkish Village
Life with a View : A Turkish Quest (very good)
Anatolian Days and Nights: A Love Affair with Turkey, Land of Dervishes, Goddesses, and Saints

Oh boy, I’d love to be plugging my very own book here about expat life in South Africa, but alas, it’s not written yet:-) You’ve got me motivated to once again give it a start. Or rather a finish, since all the stories are already there. I read both Dancing in the Fountain and Chickens, Mules and two old Fools and liked them both. I liked the beginning of Expat Life Slice by Slice as it starts in Africa and has some good stories, but some of the book felt too much like a how-to book. Another book I only… Read more »


Oooh…I absolutely can’t resist these kinds of books! In fact, I am halfway finished with my own account of expat life in Mauritania. (Sadly, I’ve been halfway finished for a couple of years now…) I just got an ARC to review of a brand new one from China “Apologies to my Censor.” Looks good but I haven’t gotten to it yet. I liked “Almost French” too. I own “The Caliph’s House” and someday soon I’ll read it. I liked one written by a peace corps worker in …burkina faso I think it was? I tried searching for the title on… Read more »

P.S. For Africa, I’m not sure that it’d fall into an expat book per se but have you read Elenore Smith Bowen’s “Return to Laughter: An Anthropological Novel”? It’s actually a thinly veiled inside look at the fieldwork experiences of a cultural anthropologist written by a respected anthropologist named Laura Bohannan. Highly recommended — I had it as required reading in my “Introduction to Cultural Anthropology” classes!

Hi Miss Footloose — Thanks for the recommendations — as I haven’t read any of them, including Peter Mayle’s books! My favorite book for Hong Kong is Martin Booth’s “Gweilo: Memoirs of a Hong Kong Childhood” (AKA “Golden Boy: Memoirs of a Hong Kong Childhood” in the US). I’ve got a review of it here:- For Japan, my favorite is Bruce Feiler’s “Learning to Bow: Inside the Heart of Japan”. It’s about an American who goes and teaches in a rural Japanese town. There’s also Niall Murtagh’s “The Blue-Eyed Salaryman: From World Traveler to Life at Mitsubishi”. All three… Read more »

KeithL. Sanderson

A friend of mine recently published a book about living in Nigeria from ’66-’68, during the Biafra war, while I was nearby in Ghana from ’66-’69. It is based on his experiences as an USAID (you’ll know all about that) employee and his friendship with an educated Nigerian. The title is “Parallel Tracks, Two Lanscapes/Two Journeys”, by Barry Veret. Available from ISBN# softcover: 978-1-4653-5253-8, Ebook 978-1-4653-5254-5. He wrote it in 3rd person, changed his name, but it’s really about him and his real friend. Very realistic.

geeGee Parrot

Good choice of books.. try reading a book called ‘Vanilla Beans & Brodo’ by Isabella Dusi.. two Australians of Italian descent move back to Italy.. written maybe 15 years ago and has held its’ charm..

Hi Karen, Great suggestions! The only one on your list that I’ve already read is Perking the Pansies (and I’ve read several of Peter Mayle’s books). I guess I’ll have to add a few more to my reading list. A couple that fall into this category that I’ve read and are among my favs are: The Woman Who Fell from the Sky: An American Journalist in Yemen, by Jennifer Steil and I have Iraq in my Shoe: Misadventures of a Soldier of Fashion, by Gretchen Berg… both memoirs and both riveting. Expat Life Slice by Slice, by Apple Gidley is… Read more »


Thank you very much for the suggestions. I love that kind of books. I’ll definitely put those on my list!

This website uses cookies to improve your experience. We'll assume you're ok with this, but you can opt-out if you wish. Accept Read More

Would love your thoughts, please comment.x